DateCity
The FREE UK dating and contact site – January 2004 Issue
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Readers
dating advice learn
from the girls and guys out there that you want to pull ... When it
comes to technique you can't beat knowing what the person your with is
thinking, and we can bring you the next best thing - tips and advice from
single men and women out in the real world. Kissing
... A big
gripe of women is that men don’t do it enough, so here’s how: Claire
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"You can't beat a guy who likes to kiss, and takes it slow to build up
the passion. Here's my advice to guys on how to do it. Take your time, right from the beginning,
gently bite or lick my lips with your tounge and try to vary the intensity.
After a while you can start to open my mouth more, but don't dive straight
in. Too many guys do that. Be firm as
you open my mouth with yours, and then start playing with the tip of my
tounge and not my tonsils. As you do, concentrate on the task and the moment
in hand and not what may come later. I also love to look into a mans eyes as
I kiss, so let me." Natalie
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"I love it when the guy puts his hands around my face, it makes it more
romantic and sensual. Also kissing on the neck is good, and it has to last a
bit or else it is a waste of time. Don't stick your tounge down my throats
either, gentle is best." Christine
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"Some guys just stick there tounge in and swirl it around like a washing
machine, it really puts me off, especially when they slobber all over
you." Lisa
& Amy -
"We find it a real turn off to be suffocated by a heavy breather when
kissing." Where
To Meet ... Matt
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"People always think meeting in clubs and pubs is best. It's not! It's
hard to talk over the noise and you may having nothing in common. I put a notice up in my local leisure
center for a female tennis partner. I
had a couple of replies, both of whom I got on with and if you can’t think of
what to say there is always the game to talk about. I’ve been dating one of them for 3 months
now.” The
internet is also a great way to meet people, as a visitor to this site
confirms : Gavin
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"This is really advice for all those shy guys, who find it hard to talk
to women. I always have been a shy person, and I thought I would be alone for
ever at times, but then I met someone in an online chat room and we begun to
get to know each other. I found this a lot easier than in person, and once we
felt comfortable with each other we decided to meet as she lived in the same
city as me. As a result I am more
confident now than I ever have been.
Many people think of the net or chat rooms as a stupid way to date,
but I have found that it has raised my self confidence past anything I
thought I could feel.” Dating
... Linda
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"A first date can be awkward at times, and there is often pressure on to
keep the conversation going. To relieve this don't make the first date a
meal, instead go for an activity - bowling, tennis or a film. It will give
you something to talk about and make you more relaxed." Compliment
Me ... Zoe - "I have a
pretty good body, but I still worry that my boyfriend doesn't find me
attractive. I tend to be very conscious about where he is looking at me, and
it really makes me feel good if he tells me "your beautiful" or
"I love your body", what's more its a real turn on!" If
you have got some advice of your own e-mail it to: contributions@directpublishing.co.uk |
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